Sister Eubank, you light a torch of happiness and faith
in all of us.
Thank you.
Oh, sisters, I love you, and I thank you
for bringing your faith together tonight.
I would like to talk to you about something
we need to be doing.
We need to continually deepen our knowledge of and obedience
to Heavenly Father.
Our relationship with Him is eternal.
We are His beloved children, and that will not change.
How are we going to wholeheartedly accept
His invitation to draw near to Him
and thus enjoy the blessings He longs to give us in this life
and in the world to come?
The Lord said to ancient Israel, and He says to us,
"Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love:
therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee."
The Father says to us, "Thou shalt abide in me,
and I in you; therefore walk with me."
Do we trust Him enough to abide in Him and walk with Him?
We are here on this earth to learn and grow,
and the most important learning and growing
will come from our covenant connection
to Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ.
From our faithful relationship with Them
comes godly knowledge, love, power, and capacity to serve.
"We are duty-bound to learn all that God
has revealed about himself."
We must understand that God the Father directed
His Son, Jesus Christ, to create the earth for our growth,
that Heavenly Father gave His Son
to pay the demands of justice for our salvation,
and that the Father's priesthood power and the Son's true Church
with the necessary ordinances were
restored for our blessings.
Can you feel the depth of love running
through Their preparations for our joy and growth?
We need to know Heavenly Father's plan of salvation
is that we obey the laws and ordinances of the gospel
and gain eternal life and thus become as God is.
This is the true and lasting happiness
Heavenly Father offers us.
And there is no other true and lasting happiness.
Our challenges can pull us off this course of happiness.
We can lose our trusting connection to God
if trials drive us to distraction instead
of sending us to our knees.
This simple couplet begs us to do some priority sifting:
"Some things matter; some things don't.
A few things last, but most things won't."
Sisters, what is mattering to you?
What is lasting to you?
A matter of lasting value to the Father is that we learn of Him,
humble ourselves, and grow in obedience to Him
through earthly experiences.
He wants us to change our selfishness into service,
our fears into faith.
These lasting matters can test us to our core.
It is now, with our mortal limitations,
that the Father asks us to love when loving is most difficult,
to serve when serving is inconvenient,
to forgive when forgiving is soul-stretching.
How?
How will we do it?
We earnestly reach for Heavenly Father's help,
in the name of His Son, and do things
His way instead of pridefully asserting our own will.
I recognized my pride when President Ezra Taft
Benson spoke on cleansing the inner vessel.
I imagined myself as a pitcher.
How was I to get the residue of pride out of my pitcher?
Independently forcing ourselves to have humility
and trying to make ourselves love
others is insincere, hollow, and simply doesn't work.
Our sins and pride create a breach--or a gap--between us
and the font of all love, our Heavenly Father.
Only the Savior's Atonement can cleanse us of our sins
and close that gap or breach.
We want to be encircled in the arms of our Heavenly Father's
love and guidance, and so we put His
will first and with a broken heart
plead that Christ will pour streams of cleansing water
into our pitcher.
At first it may come drop by drop, but as we seek,
ask, and obey, it will come abundantly.
This living water will begin to fill us,
and brimming with His love, we can tip the pitcher of our soul
and share its contents with others
who thirst for healing, hope, and belonging.
As our inner pitcher comes clean,
our earthly relationships begin to heal.
Sacrifice of our personal agendas
is required to make room for the eternal plans of God.
The Savior, who speaks for the Father,
pleads with us to "draw near unto me
and I will draw near unto you."
Drawing near unto the Father can mean learning of His truth
through the scriptures, following prophetic counsel,
and striving to do His will more completely.
Do we understand Christ has the power
to bring us into loving fellowship with the Father
and with one another?
He, by the power of the Holy Ghost,
can give us needed insight into relationships.
A Sunday School teacher told me about a powerful experience
with his class of 11-year-old boys.
One of them I'll call Jimmy was an uncooperative loner
in class.
One Sunday the teacher was inspired
to put aside his lesson and tell why he loved Jimmy.
He spoke of his gratitude and his belief in this young man.
Then the teacher asked the class members
to tell Jimmy something they appreciated about him.
As class members, one by one, told
Jimmy why he was special to them,
the boy lowered his head and tears
began to roll down his face.
This teacher and class built a bridge to Jimmy's lonely heart.
Simple love, honestly expressed, gives hope and value to others.
I call this "repairing the breach" or the gap.
Perhaps our life in a loving premortal world
set up our yearning for true, lasting love here on earth.
We are divinely designed to give love and be loved,
and the deepest love comes when we are one with God.
The Book of Mormon invites us to "be reconciled unto [God]
through the atonement of Christ."
Isaiah spoke of those who faithfully live
the law of the fast and thus become for their own posterity
a repairer of the breach.
They are the ones who, Isaiah promises, will
"build the old waste places."
In a similar way, the Savior repaired the breach--or
distance--between us and Heavenly Father.
He, through His great atoning sacrifice, opens the way for us
to partake of God's loving power,
and then we are enabled to repair the "waste
places" in our personal lives.
Healing emotional distance between each other
will require our acceptance of Father's love,
coupled with a sacrifice of our natural selfish and fearful
tendencies.
One memorable night a relative and I
disagreed about a political issue.
She briskly and thoroughly took my comments apart,
proving me wrong within earshot of family members.
I felt foolish and uninformed--and I probably was.
That night as I knelt to pray, I hurried
to explain to Heavenly Father how difficult
this relative was!
I talked on and on.
[LAUGHTER] Perhaps I paused in my complaining
and the Holy Ghost had a chance to get my attention,
because, to my surprise, I next heard myself say,
"You probably want me to love her."
Love her?
I prayed on, saying something like, "How can I love her?
I don't think I even like her.
[LAUGHTER] My heart is hard, and my feelings are hurt.
I can't do it."
Then, surely with help from the Spirit,
I had a new thought as I said, "But You
love her, Heavenly Father.
Would You give me a portion of your love for her--so I can
love her too?"
My hard feelings softened, and my heart started to change.
And I began to see this person differently;
I began to sense her real value that Heavenly Father saw.
Isaiah writes, "The Lord bindeth up the breach of his people,
and healeth the stroke of their wound."
Over time the gap between us sweetly closed.
But even if she had not accepted my changed heart,
I had learned Heavenly Father will
help us love even those we may think
are unlovable, if we plead for His aid.
The Savior's Atonement is a conduit
for a constant flow of charity from our Father in Heaven.
We must choose to abide in this love
in order to have charity for all.
When we give our heart to the Father and the Son,
we change our world even if circumstances around us
do not change.
We draw closer to Heavenly Father
and feel His tender acceptance of our efforts
to be true disciples of Christ.
Our discernment, confidence, and faith increase.
Mormon tells us to pray with all energy of heart for this love
and it will be bestowed upon us from its source--Heavenly
Father.
Only then can we become repairers of the breach
in earthly relationships.
Our Father's infinite love reaches out to us
to bring us back into His glory and joy.
He gave His Only Begotten Son, Jesus Christ,
to repair the breach that gapes wide between us and Him.
Reunion with the Father in Heaven
is the essence of lasting love and eternal purpose.
We must make the connection with Him now
to learn what really matters, to love as He loves
and grow to be like Him.
I testify our faithful relationship
with Heavenly Father and the Savior matters eternally
to Them and to us.
In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.